I’m sitting in Chicago O’Hare right now, listening to my son and his Battle Buddy talk gaming computers.

My flight doesn’t take off until 1830, and the time at this mark is 0800. The things we do for our children! But you know, it’s a bright day, there is good company in these two sailors, and plenty of people to watch. My son wants to chill and watch movies, which is really what we have done for most of his liberty, and I have no objection. After ten weeks of unrelenting activity to go through Boot Camp sitting and doing very little seems to be a good idea. He starts Submarine school upon his arrival in Groton CT late tonight, and it will be another couple of months of tough learning for him, followed by more of the same.

I’m very proud of him. He’s walking taller than he was when he raised his hand and took the oath. From his letters, Boot was no cake walk, but now that he is on the other side of graduation it’s clear that he made the right choice. He’s slimmed down and moves with confidence, which is good to see. He has a plan, he has made friends, and he’s entering manhood with clear eyes and a lot of support.

This isn’t going to be a long post. Time slips by like a handful of water pouring out. His paths are chosen and diverge from mine going forward, as it should be. I’ll take these little liminal times while I have them. Forgive me, please, while I enjoy this transition. I’ll be back next week with something more about writing, cover art, or possibly the fine art of vetting a potential publisher.

8 responses to “Flying Away”

  1. Congrats! It’s all fodder for the writing mill, anyway.

  2. teresa from hershey Avatar
    teresa from hershey

    Best wishes to your son in his new career. Go Navy!

  3. Glad to hear your son is doing well. Congratulations.

  4. Does he know what his speciality is yet?

    I was a bubble head decades ago (now I’m feeling old).

    1. He’s headed for submarine school, and SECF ETV if that makes sense (I am still figuring it out myself).

      1. He’s going to be a navigation tech. Lingo is a bit different now, but SECF = Submarine Electronics / Computer Field

        ETV = navigation and radar specialty (= navigation; subs don’t have much in the way of radar).

        Other SECF specialties are sonar tech (STS) and combat systems (FT).

        https://www.mynavyhr.navy.mil/Career-Management/Community-Management/Enlisted/Submarine/SECF/

        BTW, one issue with subs is that by the time the sailors reach a sub, almost every one is a petty officer (E4 or above) because of all the schooling required, so there are very few E3s on board for the dirty work – although there is a lot less polishing and such than on a surface ship 🙂

  5. Congratulations to a fine young man!

  6. Congratulations to him! And to you!

    Heh, in Dayton there aren’t very many Navy people, to the point that there are more Marines than normal Navy. And for some reason, almost everybody normal Navy lives in Kettering, except for my one classmate who used to still live in Beavercreek.

    But there’s always that one guy who’s a liaison over at the base or doing some kind of training, and he’s always wearing blue camo instead of what everybody else wears. So it’s fun to see somebody wearing a more stereotypically Navy uniform!

    Also, your son looks very handsome in his uniform. I’m sure he’ll do well at the school!

    The greater Groton area (ie, Mystic and Stonington) has three bookstores, as well as the U of Connecticut bookstore. East Lynne has the Book Barn, which seems like a super-serious amounts of books used bookstore with a staff of cats/mousers. The sub museum also has a sub library, so there you go.

    (I assume Kindle will be more valuable once he starts getting assigned to actual subs, but not everything is on Kindle.)

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